ONE WORD WEDNESDAY

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THROUGH THE WINDOW

                                   Aglow in the dark

                                   Alone in the night

                                  Anticipation for Halloween

                                                                                ~mjs

I'm playing Tuesday Through. . .The Window hosted by Swedish House . This Tuesday view is looking out to our front porch where my daughter wanted to see how her jack-o- lantern looked .


                        happy day!

STARTING CONVERSATION

Have you, or your child, ever felt shy and a bit uncomfortable in a new situation with new people?  It might not even be a new situation, but that feeling of not knowing what to say or do amidst the long silences.  

I like to put things out or have ongoing projects available... to occupy the hands and mind . . .to take the pressure off of people feeling the need to talk.  It's works for both adults and children.


It can as simple as blocks or puzzles, or a bowl of acorns or marbles, or beeswax or slime, and more!


 And while doing, there will usually be some kind of chatter. It may be something as simple as "please pass the red piece" but it is a start. . .  to fill the silence and lift the burden of making conversation.

And sometimes we invite a few kids over for a special project or seasonal craft. . . like carving pumpkins! 


Noone *has to* say anything, but in the course of the task, conversation does start and people start feeling more comfortable.

Spending time, with no pressure or expectation, allows for conversation. . . and friendship... to flourish.




    happy day!

WORDS

A quote for today

The true harvest of my daily life is somewhat as intangible and indescribable as the tints of morning or evening. It is a little star-dust caught, a segment of the rainbow which I have clutched."

- Henry David Thoreau

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MY EQUINE JOURNEY- Early Love

It is funny that I have a photo of my daughter and one of our horses as my header (I adore that picture!) but have never posted much on horses. Every now and then I say to myself, you really should write more about horses. But we all have to wait until the time is right, to be *inspired*, and to actually have something to say. 


It was today, while mucking and raking hay, that repetitous movement that allows our mind to wander and think, that it all came back to me. And I did have something to say.

My equine love started when I was a child. So typical right? A young girl's fascination and adoration of horses! Magical, mysterious, glorious creatures that could fly like the wind, their sight and smell took a hold of me from a very young age. 


Try as I might, I cannot remember the very first time I became enamored, but I do remember as a little tot my sister and I received matching black fabric, comfy horses to sit and bounce around on . I remember it so vividly and was in love.


 It wasn't long after that I got one of those bouncy horses on springs . I would pretend it was real and spend hours on it with my imagination. I must have shown a love of horses from an early age because of all the horsey gifts I received, OR perhaps it was all the gifts I received that increased my awareness and love of horses. I will have to ask my mom.


Soon a collection of horse figurines entered my life. I remember the Palominos with the flowing manes, one rearing and the other eating grass. I played for hours with my horses, on the grass and in a dirt square which was their paddocks. They even got numerous baths.


It was out of the question that we own a real live horse. We lived off the center of a small town on a very tiny lot, but was fortunate enough to have that borrowed landscape to look at and to romp in. Over the stone wall, a meadow beckoned us and we ran like horses, played hide n seek and discovered bits and pieces of the natural world. 


I was the oldest of six children and my mother always needed my help. I would often ask her if I could please have *outside* chores instead of inside ones, but inside was where I was needed the most even though Nature and horses and the outdoors called to me.


We lived in an old house, a mix of colonial and victorian. Most of the intricate inside and outside mouldings were taken down by my parents as they tried to *modernize* it, much to my dismay when I grew older.  We had a big attached barn with large wooden sliding doors in the front. It was used to house a carriage the century before. Around the back of the barn and underneath were two horse stalls for the horses who pulled the carriage.


Underneath the barn was HOME to me. It is where I felt I belonged. It was where my imagination and my life with my horses flourished. The horse stalls had an earthen floor and many hours were spent  down there. It was imagination on a grandiose scale. You see, I did have horses, they just weren't real live ones. They were old wooden saw horses, the kind used in building and carpentry work.


I had four of them, their names lost in my memory now, but each day they were turned out to *pasture* on the grass, saddled, bridled and rode, given fresh water and baths, and tucked back into their stalls each night. I used old blankets and towels as saddles and cotton ropes as bridles and lead ropes.


I really don't remember how old I was when I stopped playing with those horses but it would be quite old by today's standards, as children grow up too fast now as many things aren't cool . 


I remembered trading my horsey days to nature days with friends, picnicing, fishing, hiking and catching frogs all day long behind a house at the end of our street, full of ponds streams, woodlands, and paths to connect with nature. Years later that same area gave way to an apartment complex. We went on to being secret agents and spying on people around town on our bikes and holding clandestine meetings, based on Mission Impossible. We each had our own briefcase.


But my love for horses never waned, just took different forms. I read horse books, collected horse figurines and went horseback riding at a local stable, and knew someday I would have my own. Looking back I wished I had become more involved with horses on a personal level, even volunteering my time at a barn or just going to observe them on a regular basis. But I was extremely shy and new situations were hard for me. My mom couldn't always go and stay places with me, having five younger children to tend to.

 Little did I know, that IF I had gone to horse barns a few times, I would have realized horses were my comfort zone, my  *home* ,  and would have probably been the best place for me and a great help to overcome my shyness. Animals accept us and love us unconditionally.

Then there was high school and college and I never gave much thought to my dream of horses, although every time I saw one, my heart skipped a beat, and I was transformed back to that magical world, if only for a few minutes. It still didn't seem possible I would ever have a horse of my own.


In hindsight, it would have made perfect sense, as I became more independent, to go after my dream and become more involved with horses in some capacity even if I couldn't own one. I  *could* have done it, but I didn't, and I think that was a big mistake. 


It never entered my mind to do what really made me *happy*. The mission was to go to school, graduate from college, get a job. Dreams and happiness didn't really enter in. It wasn't until years later, when I had my last two children, and we unschooled, that I realized what a vital part happiness and dreams play in one's life. If it had, then art, children, animals 
(horses!) and nature would have been my life's passion and work from the very beginning!


It IS a huge mistake not to think about our dreams and try as much as possible to attain them. Perhaps we can't always have exactly what we want but we *can* take steps to make our lives richer and more joyful and can include some part of our dreams in our lives.

"Dream your dreams with open eyes and make them come true."

~ T. E. Lawrence

                         happy day!

GHOSTS IN A TREE

We love to use natural materials in many of our projects, and this time we decided on the fiber from our French Angora rabbits. 


 (Thank you for the fiber, Poof !)

It's dreamy and soft. . .  and a little bit *ghostly*, don't you think?

We took some of the angora, rolled and shaped it into *ghost form*, and tried our hands at needle felting, to make the fibers take form and stick together. Needle felting ( vs wet felting) allowed it to be wispy and still flow, like a ghost.

Once in desired shape, we glued on some eyes that we cut from black felt.

We made a loop to hang the ghosts with fishing line (because it's clear) and arranged them on a large branch we found in the woodlands. 

We leaned the branch against the wall and stretched some polyester batting for a "spooky" feel.

BOO !

If you want to see some absolutely glorious needle felted art, go here to Marie's inspiring blog, Softearth's World. It will take your breath away.


    happy day!

{this moment}

 

Following  inspiration from SouleMama:

"A Friday ritual. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember."
                                                               
                         happy day!

ONE WORD WEDNESDAY

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MUSHROOM FUN

There's still time to find mushrooms in southern New England. We had to search a little harder, but then that's half the fun!

Do you know what you can do with mushrooms?

-Bring some inside and look at them with magnifying glasses, 

**But always with the notion that ALL of them are poisonous.** 

Stay safe!

-Look at it closely. 

Do you know where the gills are?

Look at the cap and the stem.

How tall is it? Measure and record it.

(more activities below)

Here are some more mushrooms we found on our search :

 -Notice where each mushroom grew from when you collect it.
Was it growing from a rotted log, some moss, leaves,  tree bark, earth, etc ?   Was it in dampness or dryness?  Was it in a field,woodlands or lawn?

-Categorize each one according to the shape of its top ( the cap or Pileus).
Cone-shaped, Bell-shaped, Convex, Plane, Raised at center, Depressed, Funnel form

-Draw a mushroom in your nature journal.

-Use one at the entrance to your faerie house.

-Make spore prints
Spores are dust-like particles that come from the gills and they "create new individuals after being carried away on the wind and landing in a good place for growth".

Cut the stem off the mushroom and place the cap of the mushroom, gill side down, on a piece of paper. Use white paper for darker gills and darker paper for lighter gills.
Cover with glass jar or bowl and leave overnight.

 Spray the prints with acrylic fixative ( or hairspray) and mount them on colored cardstock.

          THE GALLERY of SPORE PRINTS 

Above all, enJOY your discoveries . . . 

and your connection with the natural world.

happy day!